来源自中国教育报
访谈嘉宾:
李慧生 天津师范大学学生心理健康教育中心原主任,天津市卫健委专家库成员
张继明 北京师范大学学生心理咨询与服务中心副研究员,曾任北京回龙观医院精神科主治医师
彭玮婧 湖南省教科院心理教育与生涯发展研究中心主任、心理教研员
苗婧雯 山东省威海市望岛小学心理教师,威海市环翠区教体局针对疫情组建的心理健康辅导教师团队首席专家
林 丽 北京市京源学校心理教师
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